By Danielle Benge
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March 16, 2026
Our elementary years are divided into 3-year cycles, which gives children many important benefits (that's a whole other topic), before moving on to a new, older class community. For 6th-year students, they are moving into a new plane of development (adolescence!), and are ready for a different type of experience that matches their needs and developmental characteristics. Joining a new classroom is exciting, but can also be a little scary at times, so we are very deliberate in how we support these transitions. First, the child's guide and assistant have been observing and working with the child, often for years, to track his social-emotional, intellectual, and academic progress. They are looking for a degree of readiness in the child to move into a new, older peer community. Readiness is never decided by academic progress alone, as we may give the child more time in their community if they need it. Please note that the language we use is important! A child who needs more time is NOT a child being "held back" in any way. They are getting more time to develop leadership, social-emotional, and academic skills. Please don't refer to it as being held back or failing a grade when speaking to your child about their or other children' s experiences. We talk with our 3rd and 6th-year students throughout the year before their transition, and encourage classes to call upon each other for resources like books and help with projects, so children can feel more connected and comfortable with every classroom community. Over the winter, 3rd and 6th-year students start visiting the Trillium, Willow, and Cedar classrooms. They may join lessons they are interested in, bring their own work, join another child's work, or even just make observations. These continued visits and the subsequent conversations initiated by the child's current guide help children to see themselves in a new environment and maybe think about what skills they can strengthen in preparation. Third-year children are also invited to join the upper elementary recess time on Fridays. Sixth-year students and all students in upper elementary already share a recess time with the adolescent community. Here, too, we are observing interactions across levels to gain a fuller picture of the social-emotional needs of the transitioning child. Specifically for third-year students, in spring, guides and staff start meeting to discuss which classroom a child will be placed in for the coming year. There are so many factors to consider! Students will always be placed with at least one or two familiar classmates. We consider how we can keep our upper elementary classrooms as balanced as possible for skill sets, personalities, neurodiversity, learning abilities, and gender. We generally give siblings a chance to have their own class communities. We also consider each child's interpersonal relationships with peers. While your child may feel nervous about the move, we don't always place them with a best friend. We have a lot of data collected to help us make these decisions. Our goal for our rising 3rd-year children is to have a classroom placement decided in May, at which point we share this information with families. Once children know, there are still a few upper elementary visits that occur specifically in the classroom they are joining. By May, our rising 6th-year students may be spending quite a bit of time in the adolescent community. The continued conversations between all guides and staff help make students' transitions smoother. The new guide doesn't need to start anew with each child, when they have guides and staff on hand to talk and brainstorm with. One last aspect is our requirement that families (parents/guardians) observe the upper elementary or adolescent classrooms. Transitions from one level to the next can be nerve-inducing, even flat-out challenging, but a child is much more likely to adapt to their new class community when all of the adults in their life come together to communicate and support them.